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29 luglio 8个视角:从心理学看挫败(转)1. 挫折只是指出过去的做法得不到期望的结果,是给我们需要改变的信号。
2. 挫败只是在事情上画上句号时候采用。挫败指向过去,怎样改变做法指向未来。 3. 挫败是过去的经验,经验是让我们提升自信的踏脚石。因为经验是能力的基础,而能力是自信的基础。 4. 每次挫败,都只不过是学习过程中的修正行动之一。 5. 人生里所有的学习都是通过不断的修正而达到完善的。 6. 自信不足的人,潜意识中总在寻找“不用干下去”的理由,挫败两个字很容易冒出来。 7. 我们可以接受一个人的行为和动机,但是不接受他的行为方式。 8. 任何一次行为都不等于一个人,任何一段时期都不等于一生。 To riskWilliam Arthur Ward To laugh is to risk appearing the fool To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out to another is to risk involvement To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas, your dreams before the crowd is to risk their loss To love is to risk not being loved in return, To live is to risk dying To try is to risk failure But the risk must be taken, because the greater hazard in life is to risk nothing The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow but he simply cannot learn, feel, change or live Chained by his servitude he is a slave who has forfeited all freedom. Only a person who risks is free. The pessimist complains about the wind; The optimist expects it to change; And the realist adjusts the sails." Take a risk 译文: 去冒险 王尔德
笑有犯傻的危险, 流泪有过于感伤的危险 爱上一个人有不能自拔的危险 表达情感有自我暴露的危险 在众人面前说自己的梦想,有被嘲笑的危险 付出爱有没有回报的危险 活着就有死的危险 尝试就有失败的危险
但是我们必须要冒险,因为更大的危险是不敢冒险 那些一味安逸的人,同时也一事无成,一无所有,一无是处。 他也许会少吃些苦,但是却永远无法学习、感知、体会或者生活 他是一个被自己的信念锁住的奴隶,永远被剥夺了自由
只有冒险的人永远自由 悲观者抱怨风向 乐观者期待改变 现实者调整航向
去冒险吧! |
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